hazel has been sucking her thumb since she was 5 months old
i have kind of loved it
she sleeps well, soothes herself
but her teeth are forming around her thumb now
and the dentist told us that 3 1/2 is when they like kids to stop
to prevent permanent damage
well guess who's three and a half..
we've tried to talk to her about breaking the habit
but she always reverts to her thumb when she is sad or tired
so we bought her this book for Christmas
to help her
(after all, she potty trained solely because of this other book)
anyway, the book we bought her is called thumb love
and it is terrible
i hadn't read it by myself before i read it to her the first time
on Christmas
big mistake
when i read it to her, i realized it was awful
and i could tell it was hurting her feelings and making her feel ashamed
prior to reading this book i had never made her feel bad about sucking her thumb
i figured she needs it, and she'll outgrow it
and while i would like her to stop
i don't want to do anything to make her feel ashamed
i might try a reward chart..
any one have advice?
i'd better figure it out with hazel
since olive is also a thumb sucker
and eleanor looked like she was in her ultrasound, too
yikes!
update:
after a couple of days of trying
and a reward chart
we decided to leave it be for now
when i told hazel she could
still suck her thumb and it's ok
she said, "thank you!
you're the best mom in the whole world!"
sweet girl
update:
after a couple of days of trying
and a reward chart
we decided to leave it be for now
when i told hazel she could
still suck her thumb and it's ok
she said, "thank you!
you're the best mom in the whole world!"
sweet girl