August 3, 2015

eleanor's cut finger aka a rough month for eleanor

poor eleanor has had a rough month
starting with june 29th getting her tonsils and adenoids out and tubes put in her ears
it took a solid 3 week recovery
then just two weeks ago we started her in swim lessons
because she is pretty fearful of water and we wanted to help her with that
but it was hard for her
she did eventually get more comfortable but it was a slow process
then last monday (a week ago) she decided it was time to potty train
which is great
all the trauma of her surgery was behind her and she did really well
things were definitely seeming up
until wednesday last week (july 29th) literally a month after her surgery
to the day
we were at the doctor's office for henry to get his 15 month check up (a month late)
and just after he got his immunizations, a metal statue in the room fell on eleanor
she and olive had been playing near it (olive was up high on a chair next to it and eleanor was below)
the nurse rushed to help get it off of her and then we saw she was bleeding
in her mouth and on her hand
she had a bloody lip and a severely cut finger
blood was everywhere
henry was still crying from his shots, eleanor was crying from her finger getting cut
and olive was crying because it was too loud
after cleaning up the blood on the floor
the nurse moved us to the procedure room 
i was glad to move because i was getting light-headed
 (i even told the nurse my husband's name to call him on my phone if i passed out)
 meanwhile the kids are running a muck in the procedure room
and i can't get a hold of michael on the phone
and i'm trying to keep pressure on eleanor's finger
eventually the nurse took the other 4 kids out to watch a movie in the waiting area
hallelujah
 we had to strap her on a papoose board so she wouldn't move while they stitched her finger
she could still move her hand so she kept clenching her fist
eventually i distracted her enough and she relented and held still while they got her fixed up
 she got 7 stitches in her right ring finger
and a cool bandaid we have to change every day for a week 
while keeping her hand dry
not an easy task and another huge damper on our summer
no swimming, no science center, can't finish swimming lessons, etc
 poor eleanor
she has been such a good sport
but i feel extra awful for making her do swim lessons and potty training her amidst
all the chaos and trauma she's gone through this summer
and i feel sorry for the other kids being stuck at home because of all of this
it may have been a bad time to put our tv away....
the doctor and nurses handled things really well
but the stupid metal statue shouldn't have been in there anyway since it's apparently really sharp
and wasn't bolted down
and also is made out of lead...
they were concerned about her tetanus vaccinations, too
we weren't charged for the appointment at all (duh)
but i hope her finger heals fully and it won't hinder her at all once it heals
pretty awful
we'll see if the stitches are really ready to come out wednesday 
it doesn't seem like they will be

2 comments:

miriam said...

just thinking about being in that situation gives me anxiety. poor eleanor and poor you! you're such a strong mama!

Natalie Smith said...

I was feeling sick to my tummy just reading this. Poor you and poor Eleanor.